Saturday, June 25, 2011
Wednesday, June 15, 2011
Wednesday, June 08, 2011
Mães em rede - Mães diferentes no mesmo endereço - Mães em rede: O Globo
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Tuesday, March 29, 2011
Have a Wonderful Day!
Eu encontrei este poster por acaso, olhando outros sites de arte. É um poster criado por Kal Barteski, este e mais outros posters foram usados em ônibus e estações de ônibus. A série de 7 posters pode ser encontrada em seu web-site http://lovelife.typepad.com/
Tuesday, March 08, 2011
Somewhere Over the Rainbow...
Lyrics | Judy Garland - SOMEWHERE OVER THE RAINBOW lyrics
I love this song... just started to listen it accidentally today and thought it is a song to our baby.
My baby, wherever you are, we are here, waiting for you. This song is for you, we are waiting for you.
My baby... somewhere over the rainbow... We love you!
Tuesday, February 22, 2011
Memory of Colors presented by Fotopedia
Cores...
Eu estou tomando um curso chamado Teoria da Cor na Universidade de Calgary. Estou aprendendo tanta coisa que ando cada vez mais fascinada com o tema 'cor' e tudo que seja relacionado a cores. Achei este video lindo e gostaria de compartilhar com voces.
Sunday, February 13, 2011
Brigadeiro e Casadinho
Bom brasileiro tem sempre tem brigadeiro e casadinho em aniversário de criança. Lembranças meigas do tempo de criança é ficar de olho na mesa enfeitadíssima cheia de brigadeiro e docinhos. Coisa boa é comer um (ou dois, três, quatro, cinco...) brigadeiros e/ou casadinhos. Leandro Kyohei teve a sorte do mundo de ter tido estas lindas guloseimas em seu aniversário! E isto eu tenho que agradecer de coração à uma grande amiga e sua prima linda! Flãvia & Fernanda vocês sabem que serei eternamente agradecida, não somente pelos docinhos, mas principalmente pelo amor e pela atenção aos detalhes, pela ajuda na decoração, pelo carinho e paciência também. Estavam deliciosos e aqui algumas fotos dos docinhos para que vocês, caros leitores, também fiquem com água na boca. Pois eu vou olhar para estas fotos e também lembrar como estávam deliciosos!
Aqui deixo a receita em Inglês para leitores que queiram a receita e não sabem como fazer. Bom, só não sei se vai sair tão gostoso o quanto os da F. Bjs.
A good Brazilian will have 'brigadeiro' or/and 'casadinho' at their children birthday parties. It is a sweet treat made of condensed milk that many children just dream of having and love to see the birthday table totally decorated with these delicate treats. Here I am leaving you with the recipe, just in case you want to try to make your own.
"There is a great Brazilian sweet that is like a bonbon and extremely scrumptious and delicious called brigadeiro! This is a great type of sweet that is loved here in Brazil! Try it! You can make it in the microwave too, just remember to stir every minute."
Ingredients
- 3 tablespoons unsweetened cocoa
- 1 tablespoon butter
- 1 (14 ounce) can sweetened condensed milk
Tuesday, January 25, 2011
Creating Dinosaurs
Sunday, January 09, 2011
The Disappearing Male - Doc Zone | CBC-TV
The Disappearing Male
Sunday February 14, 2010 at 3 pm on CBC-TV
Related Video
"We are conducting a vast toxicological experiment in which our children and our children's children are the experimental subjects." Dr. Herbert Needleman
The Disappearing Male is about one of the most important, and least publicized, issues facing the human species: the toxic threat to the male reproductive system.
The last few decades have seen steady and dramatic increases in the incidence of boys and young men suffering from genital deformities, low sperm count, sperm abnormalities and testicular cancer.
At the same time, boys are now far more at risk of suffering from ADHD, autism, Tourette's syndrome, cerebral palsy, and dyslexia.
The Disappearing Male takes a close and disturbing look at what many doctors and researchers now suspect are responsible for many of these problems: a class of common chemicals that are ubiquitous in our world.
Found in everything from shampoo, sunglasses, meat and dairy products, carpet, cosmetics and baby bottles, they are called "hormone mimicking" or "endocrine disrupting" chemicals and they may be starting to damage the most basic building blocks of human development.
You need to watch this: http://www.cbc.ca/video/#/Shows/Doc_Zone/1242299559/ID=1233750780
Monday, November 22, 2010
November is National Adoption Month
November is National Adoption Month: 10 Common Misconceptions about Adoption
November 13, 2010 9:00 am by Shannon LC Cate in Family
(* I really liked this article because it is honest and uses the right words! My favorite ones are no.5 and no.6)
November is National Adoption Month, and although the main purpose of the month is to encourage adoption of children in foster care, all things adoption seem to make the Internet rounds each November. This seems as good a time as any to clear up some of the most common misconceptions people outside of adoption tend to have about it. Here are the ten that came instantly to mind, based on my own experience of talking to people about adoption:
1. Birth mothers are all teenagers
Birth mothers (sometimes called “natural” or “first” mothers) — international and domestic — come in all ages and from all walks of life. Some are teens, but the mythical “unwed teen mother” that many people think of when they imagine adoption is a hold-over from the 1950s and 1960s when single and teen motherhood were less acceptable in certain areas of society than they are now. These days, the reasons for placing children in adoptive families tend to be more diverse than mere age or marital status.
2. Open adoption is confusing to kids.
Most international adoptions are “closed” by default, because the first parents are unknown and perhaps untraceable. But there is a growing trend in domestic adoption to open the process and maintain some connection between birth and adoptive families. While this idea is often hard to grasp at first thought, the fact is that closing adoption records is a fairly recent phenomenon and fairly limited to industrialized societies. Even in the United States where formal, legal adoptions have been closed for the past few decades, there are subcultures in which informal and open “adoptions” have always been the norm. These might include extended families, neighbors or close friends raising each other’s children in times of need, temporarily or permanently. Such practices have been common throughout human history. Research is starting to show that adopted people who at least know a little bit about their first families have a better chance of adjusting healthily throughout their adolescent years of identity formation and on into later life.
3. They hate girls in China.
The circumstances that lead to so many girls being available for adoption in China are complex. But, in short, it is more the tradition of wives being absorbed by their husbands’ families that is the root of the problem in China. When you combine this with an economy that relies on adult children’s care of aged parents and a law restricting most families to either one son or two children (when the first is a daughter), the problem is seriously exacerbated. Some families — by far the small minority — with a first-born daughter feel pressured enough to have a boy on their second try, that a second daughter is sometimes abandoned so they can try again for a boy.
4. Black babies are the latest trend among celebrities.
If a celebrity does something, we hear much more about it than when Bill Smith from Peoria does it, right? When two celebrities do the same thing, we hear enough about it to make it feel like a “trend” simply by virtue of the percentage of space it takes up in the media. The fact is, African American babies are still the last to be placed in adoption in the United States. African American boy babies are at the very bottom of the demand pyramid for healthy newborns. Perhaps the reasons more than one white celebrity has a Black adopted son is because celebrities live such cosmopolitan lives that when the social worker doing their home study asks “are you open to adopting a Black boy?” they say yes more often than other people. And if you say yes to a Black baby boy, you will probably get one — and fast — because not many people say yes.
5. Adoptive parents are saintly for adopting.
Adoptive parents are always hearing how great they are for having adopted. People always mean well when they say this, but the fact is, most adoptive parents adopted because they wanted to be parents. Period. Not because they are special saints. This also sometimes sounds to adoptive parents like their children are somehow less lovable, and therefore, loving them is a heroic act. Adopted parents just love their kids like other parents love theirs. It doesn’t require any special effort!
6. Adopted kids are lucky.
The knee-jerk response that adopted people are lucky is also a misguided attempt to be kind. I think most people mean, “rather than dying on a roadside in China, your daughter gets a loving family — what luck!” But in fact, the adopted person had the rotten luck of getting stuck on that roadside in the first place. Now she’s been utterly displaced from her culture, language, religion, and country and sent to live with strangers. Those things are not magically erased by adoption. Yes, it’s wonderful to have a loving family, but all people deserve this. People who only get to have it after — even as the result of — incalculable loss aren’t lucky. Often though, adoptive parents will tell you that they feel lucky to have their beloved children.
7. Adoption costs a lot of money and only rich people can afford it.
Some adoptions are more expensive than others, but some are virtually free. (In the original spirit of Adoption from Foster Care Awareness Month, I will mention here, that many state adoptions are free and/or come with financial subsidies to assist adoptive families.) There are a number of factors involved including what kind of professionals are involved (social workers aren’t in it for the money but they do have to get paid something), whether travel is required and how much of it, whether an employer gives adoption benefits and many more. Don’t assume an adopted baby is a “luxury.”
8. There is a high level of risk that once adopted, a child will be given back to/taken back by biological family members.
Cases in which children are moved after they have been living with “adoptive” parents for many months — even years — get so much publicity they can scare people into doing as closed an adoption as possible to defend against this outcome. But the fact is that adoptions are almost never overturned, once final. The hugely publicized cases are not only a minute percentage of adoptions, they are usually — nearly always, in fact — cases of would-be adoptions that are not yet final because of issues the adoptive parents have been aware of since the placement of the child. In other words, there was always a risk and the prospective parents took it willingly.
It’s also important to note that the courts in the United States favor adoptive families so strongly that when a child is removed from a prospective adoptive home, it can almost always be assumed that the reasons were excellent and much more than fair.
9. Birth mothers are saintly for placing their children in adoption. OR Birth mothers are demons for getting pregnant unintentionally/being “unfit”/not loving their children enough to raise them.
Birth mothers are women who have experienced a crisis pregnancy and dealt with it as best they can under their particular circumstances. Nothing else can really be assumed about them. Birth mothers and adoptive mothers are not in competition. Both are important to adopted people and both love their children as often as the general population of mothers love their children, that is, nearly 100% of the time. Birth mothers are severely judged in U.S. society. Doubt it? If you are not a party to an adoption, think about the birth mothers you know. If you’re having trouble coming up with a birth mother you know, that’s largely because most birth mothers are not hasty to share their adoption placement story. Some never tell a soul for the rest of their lives. Try to remember, the next time you’re talking about adoption, that the woman you’re talking to might in fact, be a birth mother. It’s time to make it safe for these mothers to “come out.”
10. Adoption is the opposite of abortion. As long as we have one, we don’t need the other.
Adoption is one option in a society with reproductive freedom. Adoption requires motherhood of a woman — both throughout a pregnancy and delivery and throughout the rest of her life — even if she never sees her child again after birth. For a woman in a crisis pregnancy who doesn’t want to be a mother, abortion is an important option. For a woman who doesn’t personally feel comfortable with abortion, but neither feels ready or able to raise a child, adoption is an important option.
These misconceptions are so popular, I think, because most media representations of adoption draw on them heavily. Racism, classism, xenophobia and national pride all contribute to simplistic understandings of adoption as well. I am an adoptive mother myself, and I have heard all of these many times in many places. I don’t mind clearing them up in a friendly conversation, as long as my children’s privacy isn’t being invaded. Most people who are not personally involved in adoption have little reason to learn the facts. But as adoption becomes more and more open in the United States, and transracial and transnational adoptions make adoptive families more and more visible, it will be helpful if everyone can learn a little bit more about those facts.
"All that you have is your soul." Tracy Chapman
Friday, October 22, 2010
Tuesday, October 19, 2010
Halloween Window Mural 2010: Winnie the Witch

Oi gente! Happy Halloween para todos! Esta data especial para toda criançada está chegando e a gente aqui em casa anda a mil preparando a casa. Meu pequeno L tem me ajudado um bocado: decorou o seu pumpkin, colou insetos e baratas na porta da entrada, ajudou a colar aranhas nos vidros da janela dos fundos e outros decalques pela casa. Já está todo animado com a sua fantasia de Happy Feet (Penguim) e me ajudou a pintar a nossa janela da frente com a personagem do livro favorito dele: Winnie the Witch!
Levou exatamente três dias para terminar... Que sufoco! Ela é uma personagem com muitos detalhes. Mas para pintar janelas de vidro determino mesmo três dias, pois primeiro preciso traçar os detalhes em preto. Depois deixar secar pelo menos umas 12 horas. Depois pintar a primeira base, as cores ficam meio apagadas, e deixar secar novamente por umas 12 horas. E no último dia repassar as cores e terminar os detalhes, e então novamente deixar secar.
Fico esperando que outros amigos me peçam para fazer desenhos nas janelas deles, mas até agora ninguém me pediu... assim continuo a pintar na nossa janela de casa.
Minha família AMA! Que já virou tradição, no Halloween e no Natal!
Monday, October 18, 2010
Our contribuition
There are simple actions I believe each of us can take to reduce the gap between Ecological Footprint and biocapacity. The following are the things our family is doing to help (and we are happy to do them, it is not a burden in our life-style):
- We recycle (magazines, junk mail, cardboard, milk containers, juice boxes, drawing papers, cereal boxes, etc.);
- We ONLY use rechargeable batteries
- Support our Green Party and Green politicians;
- We turn off our computers at night and when not on use;
- We don't smoke, and we don't like smoking;
- We donate old clothes and other items and never throw them away unnecessarily (unless broken or when a hazard);
- We read a lot about environmental issues and share the information with friends, family and others (like this blog!);
- We use mostly All-Natural, Plant-based, Biodegradable cleaning products;
- We are a ONE car family (actually ours is on the top 30 green cars), a small car, reducing air pollution and saving on fuel;
- I carry a mug for coffee/tea and drinks I buy to go;
- We turn off all the lights that are not necessary around the house (My son is big into that one too! Often reminding us to do so);
- I store most of our food in reusable containers instead of aluminum foil;
- We COMPOST and we use our compost in our vegetable garden;
- We turn off the water when brushing our teeth;
- We support local farmers and local business owners;
- We read news online rather then the newspaper;
- We only wash our laundry when we have a full load to do, and we own a Energy Saver frontloader;
- We only run our dishwasher when it is pretty full;
- We NEVER eat at MacDonalds;
- We are against hunting for sport;
- We don't litter;
- I let my hair dry naturally;
- Most of our fruits and vegetables are organically grown;
- We don't watch TV;
- We go to our local public library
Above all, we accept that small changes can make a BIG difference. And here we encourage others in their effort to make those changes. I have my son as my biggest reason to do whatever is possible to create a clean and prosperous World for him and all the next generation...
Sadly, reading the report's results the impact of environmental degradation seems to be greater in the world's poorest and most vulnerable people. Reduce access to clean water, proper food, fuel and goods, these people cannot break out the poverty trap they find themselves in and cannot prosper.
People need to be aware that right now, it is a reality that renewable resources are being harvested faster than they can be generated, more wood is being taken from forests each year than it can re-grow, and more fish are being harvest than are replenished every year depleting the resources faster than imagined.
The problem is being ignored because people are just ignoring the problem by moving to a new fishing area or another forest, clearing new land for farming, or targetting a different population.
What is the biggest effects? Easy answer: increase concentration of CO2 in the air, trap in the atmosphere, leading to increase global temperatures and affecting climate changes, and ocean acidification, etc.
Ecological Footprint Index
Living in harmony with nature from WWF on Vimeo.
The ecological footprint index is a measure of human deman on the Earth's ecosystems. It compares human deman with planet Earth's ecological capacity to regenerate.
It represents the amount of biologically productive land and sea area needed to regenerate the resources a human population consumes and to absorb and render harmless the corresponding waste.
Using this assessment, it is possible to estimate how much of the Earth it would take to support humanity if everybody lived a given lifestyle.
While the term ecological footprint is widely used, methods of measurement vay. However, calculation standards are now emerging to make results more comparable and consistent.
Living Footprint Index
Not Another Nature Film from WWF on Vimeo.
The Global Footprint Network promotes the science of sustainability by advancing the Ecological Footprint, a resource accounting tool that makes sustainability measurable.
It works to further improve and implement this science by coordinating research, developing methodological standards, and providing decision-makers with robust resource accounts to help the human economy operate within the Earth's ecological limits.
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
Why One Day for Peace? Lives ARE being saved
From the PeaceOneDay.org website:
To some it’s just a single day... But to us, 21 September is a 24 hour-long platform for life-saving activities around the world and an opportunity for individuals - particularly young people - to become involved in the peace process. 21 September is the UN International Day of Peace, a day of global ceasefire and non-violence: Peace Day.
In 2009, millions of people were active on Peace Day, in all 192 UN member states. There were life-saving activities focused on Peace Day in 18 countries. In Afghanistan Peace One Day spearheaded a campaign, which over three consecutive years (2007/8/9) has resulted in the immunisation against polio of over 4 million children as a result of Peace Day agreements by all parties.
On Peace Day 2008 in Afghanistan the United Nations Department for Safety and Security, which monitors security related incidents, recorded a 70 per cent reduction in violent incidents on the day itself. Why one day matters?
The short films above are testimonials from leading figures and supporters of Peace One Day on the importance of Peace Day, 21 September, and why people from all four corners of the globe must commit to taking action on the day. Watch them and then use the site to commit to taking action on Peace Day yourself.
Monday, September 20, 2010
☮Happy World Peace Day - September 21st, 2010 ☮
9月21日は世界平和の日です。今回、私はお久しぶりに日本語で書きます。いつも英文かポルトガル語で書きましたが、今日の平和の日に日本語で書く事にしました。実は、非暴力というのは私の信仰の第一条です。この前の8月4日、広島の平和記念日公園で原爆死没者の霊を慰め、世界の恒久平和を祈念するために人多数参加のしまいました。
その時の事を忘れられない用に今回は日本語で書きたいと思います。今日は世界平和の日ですよ。どうして、今までも人は殺しあうんだろうか。戦争や紛争や暴力はこの世から無くなられないのかな。
一人のイギリス人の俳優、ジェレミー・ギレイ(Jeremy)は一つのドキュメンタリーをしました。映像の力を知っていた彼は、映像を使って平和に関するドキュメンタリーを制作しようとしていた。彼は平和の日を作る事を決意しました。
国際連本部は世界中の若者から平和のお話や平和のテーマの文章を探しています。国際連本部はその問題の決定案をまだ検索中だ。その答えは、未来の若者達が持っています。
私も、世界平和は実現出来るために、こんなメッセージを多くの人々に伝えて欲しいです。
Sunday, September 19, 2010
Minha receita de Kabob ou Espetinho estilo Asiático
Ingredientes:
- 1 xícara de chá de molho shoyu (molho de soja para culinária)
- 3 colheres de molho teriyaki
- 3 colheres cheias de mel
- 1 1/2 colher de alho em pó (pode ser 1 dente de alho bem amassado)
- 2 colheres de gengibre bem ralada
- 3/4 copo de azeite de oliva ou óleo de soja (mais ou menos 10ml)
- 1 talo de cebolinha bem picada
- 1kg de fillet mingon (carne) cortadas em cubos (mais ou menos 3cm de largura e 1cm de espessura)
- 1 lata de abacaxi em conserva
- 4 pimentões coloridos (eu gosto de usar um de cada cor, o amarelo, vermelho, verde e laranja)
- 2 cebolas vermelhas
- sal e pimenta a gosto
- espetos de metal ou de bambu (deixar os espetos de bambu de molho em água por algumas horas antes de usar)
Modo de preparo da marinada:
Em uma tigela funda misturar bem os seis primeiros ingredientes (o molho shoyu, o molho teriyaki, o mel, o alho, a gengibre e o óleo). Colocar a carne cortada no molho dentro de um recipiente com tampa. Deixar no refrigerador no mínimo umas duas horas, muitas vezes fica gostoso se deixar por umas 12 horas (fazer antes de dormir e usar para o almoço).
Corte o pimentão em tiras quadradas, corte o abacaxi em conserva em pedaços de 1cm cada, e cortar a cebola em quadrados também. Tire a carne da geladeira e tire um pouco do molho. Misture a cebolinha picada com a carne.
Arrumar carne no espetinho, alternando com o pimentão colorido, o abacaxi e a cebola. Depois de prontos tempere por cima com sal e pimento à vontade.
Grelhe os espetos na churrasqueira a carvão. Acho que mais ou menos uns 20 minutos, mas ficar de olho para não deixar queimar! Se preferir use churrasqueira elétrica, ou asse os espetos em forno pré-aquecido, por 20 minutos ou até dourar, virando-os quando for necessário. Sirva a seguir, acompanhado de arroz.
Bom, espero que gostem!


