Me falta tempo...

By Sam Butcher

Me falta tempo
para ler todos os livros que quero
Me falta tempo
para passeios e praias e as locadoras com seus filmes
Felinis que não vi e os museus que me esperam
me falta tempo.

Me falta tempo
para amar os flertes e aprofundar as amizades de coquetéis
Me falta tempo
para arrumar o armário jogar coisas fora
passar a limpo a caderneta de telefone
redecorar o quarto
Me falta tempo
para o orfanato e ajudar o meu vizinho a pendurar o quadro na parede.
Me falta tempo
para aprender japonês
pintar em tecido
tocar piano
tecer meus planos
Me falta tempo
para as aquarelas que sonho
preciso anotar meus sonhos
Mas me falta tempo...

Tempo para os amigos antigos que já me esqueceram
tempo para as músicas e cds
tempo para o estrangeiro, ilhas e cantões a conhecer
Me falta tempo
para os poemas que a poesia me exige
e gravar os programas de TV
no entanto,
quantas vezes não tenho nada,
absolutamente nada para fazer.

É assim que me sinto às vezes. Sinto que os dias correm e que não consigo fazer nada dele.

Glowing with happiness

Becoming a Toddler

How your life is changing:
You're learning that 2-year-olds aren't the only ones to go through "terrible" phases. Your toddler may be easily overwhelmed by life's challenges and respond to them by dissolving into tears and screams. Don't ask him to stop — he probably can't. Instead be patient, available, and willing to offer him comfort or just your presence, whatever he seems to need at the moment. He'll get over it and be good as new if you just let him storm.
Children are generally very trusting now. They expect adults to save them from unwise or even dangerous adventures, such as climbing up on a chair to reach the sink. Try to have eyes in the back of your head during this period.
The next stage comes in the middle of the second year. Babies begin to use their new thinking powers and may get grouchy as they figure out that parents and caregivers can no longer cater immediately to their every need. Without warning, the rules have changed: a child now has to wait a bit for dinner; an adult playmate may not be available on demand; a parent who has been a constant presence may be back at work full time.

Great Expectations
In addition, the adults in a toddler's life now expect more mature behaviors. We want toddlers to use a spoon rather than dig into food with fingers. We insist that grabbed toys be returned to their rightful owners. And, most annoyingly, we ask that the toys be shared!
Struggling to understand these new rules is hard work for toddlers. Some toddlers become more low key; others become more defiant. Both responses are attempts to cope with the sweeping changes from early babyhood — when any cry brought prompt, tender care.

Emotional Swings
Toddlers' emotions will often seesaw wildly now. On one hand, they want to be on their own and grow toward more assertiveness, self-will, and independence. ("No!" and "Do it myself" become favorite refrains.) On the other hand, they're longing to still be cuddled and protected.
The likely result is overwhelming frustration. For example, a toddler who wrestles with a puzzle piece but cannot make it fit will commonly react by sweeping the puzzle to the floor and throwing himself with passionate sobs into his caregiver's arms.

Balancing Act
So what does a wise adult do during these rocky emotional times? First, offer reassurance, and boost the child's courage to try again. If adults do not provide new challenges in judicious doses, they may dampen the toddler's motivation to grow toward more independence.
In addition, offer toddlers limited choices ("Do you want apple juice or orange juice?"), and be as patient as you can be. Anger and indignation at what parents and caregivers may view as defiance and disobedience can crush a toddler's spirit. Adult fury leads to gray moods and loss of toddler joy.
At all costs, be careful not to shame toddlers. Check your words and take care not to call a toddler "bad" for having toileting accidents, saying "no," or being clumsy. When a toddler's struggle toward independence is ridiculed, scolded, ignored, or punished, the result is often rage or deliberate hurting of others. Make every effort to support your toddler with firm, calm words and gestures. Empathize with this difficult emotional stage. Offer a hug when he dissolves into frustrated tears. If you can't be there, make sure to leave a "blankie" or other self-soother with your child's caregiver.
If you work patiently with your child to face the difficulties in the drive toward independence, he'll learn how to calm himself, wait patiently, and cope with stressful social situations. Just remember that there's no quick fix: All new emotional learning takes time.

Becoming a Toddler

 

Becoming a Toddler

 

Becoming a Toddler

 

Another fun day at Butterfield Acres

Leandro and I spend long mornings almost every week. We got the season pass after using one pass given by our little friend Gus as a Birthday present. Leandro just loved! So I decided to get a season pass, which has been just AWESOME! The animals there are very kind, tamed and sweet (a little smelly though).

Another fun day at Butterfield Acres

Butterfield Acres Farm is a petting zoo or hands-on farm for kids and families but entertaining for all ages. Located in Calgary Alberta. IT'S ALL ABOUT THE EXPERIENCE!!! Butterfield Acres Children's Farm is THAT kind of place. You know, where you can listen to the sheep munching on their hay, or wiggle your fingers into the curly wool of a newborn lamb, or inspect the hair in a calf's ear. You can feel the warmth of a newly laid egg, or be amazed that cute little pigs can smell so awful!